Flipping Back The On Switch Of Your Emotions

” I’ll never allow anyone to hurt me ever again” have you ever said this before? Perhaps you didn’t realize this statement flipped the off switch of your emotions. To say you will never let anyone hurt means you must not feel.  We have no control over people hurting us. The control we have is…

Foster Care: A Letter To The Church

Dear Church, Many times in church we are overlooked not because we are sitting behind the women with the big Sunday hat; but because we dont belong to any of the parents in the congregation. Unfortunately,  sometimes the church is another place youth and young adults who have been impacted by the Foster Care system…

Can I Really Honor My Mother and Father? I’m in foster Care

If you asked me a year ago, do I honor my Mother and Father? I would have given you the meanest 13-year-old sassiest eye roll ever. Then I would have proceeded to give you the grocery list of reasons why I felt my parents were unworthy of being honored.  However, the more I learn about…

Breaking Down Stone Cold Walls

New York City building lights are beautiful but when you live in an gated community called  “ I’ll never let anyone hurt me again”   its hard to see anything hopeful.  Trust me this isn’t a sappy post but an exciting one because I’m sharing  about  moving to a new place in my life called” ” No barriers No Limits, No…